Saturday, February 16, 2008

"Remember Lori DeKleine as a brave and resilient woman"

"...Lori's contagious optimism, profound and expressive writing, quick wit and sparkling smile were gifts to those who knew and loved her and will carry us through dark nights ahead..."

Excerpted from a letter to the Editor of the Holland Sentinel on January 19th, 2008, titled,

"Remember Lori DeKleine
as a brave and resilient woman"


"...In order to escape the guilt that must be shared corporately for ignoring the signs of abuse, we tend to blame and explain. However, "Did you know ... ?" or "I heard that ... ," only crucify the truth and intensify the pain. Malicious lies were spread for a long time before Lori's death, and perpetuating the existence of such lies is not only destructive and unjust, but it dishonors Lori, her family, friends and this community.
It is time to put the focus where it belongs.
On Jan. 8, two nights before she died, Lori shared her hopes for the future. At the monthly meeting of the FOCUS+ adult ADHD advocacy group, of which she was a member and leader, Lori shared her deep faith and confidently challenged the group to see obstacles as opportunities. Her resiliency and relentless tenacity for finding solutions to problems, encouraged the listeners who were there that night. Diverting attention from herself, she asked us to consider, "What's on your plate? What are you carrying?" She then handed each group a paper plate to pass so each person could share the obstacle she wanted to turn into opportunity for growth in 2008. Lori's contagious optimism, profound and expressive writing, quick wit and sparkling smile were gifts to those who knew and loved her and will carry us through dark nights ahead..."

Saturday, February 2, 2008

DEKLEINE PLEADS NOT GUILTY...

DeKleine pleads not guilty
Trial of police officer accused of killing his wife at her home is scheduled for June
Saturday, February 2, 2008
The Holland Sentinel
MEGAN SCHMIDT megan.schmidt@hollandsentinel.com (616) 546-4279 http://www.hollandsentinel.com/stories/020208/local_20080202005.shtml

The Holland police officer accused of killing his wife last month has pleaded not guilty for the charge of open murder.

Ken DeKleine's defense attorney Floyd Farmer confirmed Friday that DeKleine signed a written waiver of arraignment stating his plea after his preliminary exam on Jan. 25.

As a result, an arraignment that had been set for Monday at the 20th Circuit Court in Grand Haven, has been canceled.

A jury trial has been scheduled for June 24.

DeKleine, 44, was taken into custody the day after his wife, Lori, 43, was found dead in her Calvin Avenue home's basement Jan 10. The couple had separated and were going through a divorce before Lori's death.

Farmer declined to comment on why DeKleine might enter a plea of not guilty despite having previously confessed to police that he committed the murder.

Meanwhile, a church leader acting as a spokesman for the family said Friday that DeKleine's two children, Breanne, 18, and Christopher, 16, have returned to class at Holland Christian High School.

"I don't think they are back full-time, but they're trying to get some routine back into their lives," said Brad Ward, elder at Holland Heights Christian Reformed Church.

Principal Tony Stahl said the two children were easing back into their normal schedule.

"We're working with them but also want them to take as much time as they need to," Stahl said.

Ward said the church and some individuals are working to put together a fund in the coming weeks for the children's education.

"They have lives to continue to lead and school and no source of income to do it," he said.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

POLICE OFFICER THOUGHT OF KILLING WIFE LAST YEAR

Police officer thought of killing wife last year
Ken DeKleine said personal protection order was start
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Holland Sentinel
http://www.hollandsentinel.com/stories/012608/local_20080126002.shtml
BY MEGAN SCHMIDT megan.schmidt@hollandsentinel.com (616) 546-4279In the moments before her death, Lori DeKleine begged her husband, Holland police Officer Ken DeKleine, to "think of the kids" as he strangled her with a strap, a Michigan State Police detective testified during a preliminary exam in Holland District Court on Friday.

Sgt. Gary Miles said DeKleine confessed to the murder, saying that he'd first thought of killing Lori after she filed a personal protection order against him in January 2007.

Since then, the couple had separated and were in the midst of a divorce when Lori, 43, was found dead in the basement of her Calvin Avenue home earlier this month.

DeKleine told Miles that around 3 a.m. on Jan. 10, he hid in the attic of her house and waited for his two children to leave for school.
He planned to kill Lori after she got in the shower, part of her usual morning routine, Miles said.
But those plans changed when Lori called in sick to work around 10 a.m.

DeKleine told Miles that he climbed down from the attic and began to strangle Lori in the kitchen with a climbing strap.

"(Lori) made a statement, 'Think of the kids,'" meaning their two teenage children, Miles said, to which DeKleine replied that he was.

After checking her pulse to make sure she was dead, DeKleine dragged Lori's body into the basement and tied a clean, yellow strap around her neck to make it appear that she had committed suicide, Miles said.

When DeKleine left the house around 1 p.m., he told Miles that he threw his blood-stained clothing out of his car and drove to Prime Care to have a cut lip treated, which Lori had bit during the struggle.

He later bought some peroxide for the injury at Model Drug and drove to McDonald's for a chocolate milkshake before going in for his shift at work that afternoon, Miles said.

Defense attorney Floyd Farmer asked Miles if De-Kleine had expressed concern that Lori may have had a romantic relationship with her therapist. Miles said DeKleine had mentioned it during the interview.

An autopsy indicated that suicide by hanging was not the cause of Lori's death, according to testimony by David Start, Ottawa County medical examiner.

"There was no deep furrow or indentation that we usually see with hangings, deep in the tissue of the neck," Start said.

Start also said scrapes and bruises on Lori's body and bite marks on her tongue show that there was a struggle before she died.

Fractures above and behind her voice box were also not consistent with a suicidal hanging.
The cause of death was determined to be strangulation.

Holland police officer Jeffrey Velthouse, the first to arrive on the scene after Lori was found unresponsive, was handed a tissue as he sniffled on the stand Friday.

Velthouse said that as he entered the house, which he recognized immediately as the DeKleines' residence, he was directed to the basement by DeKleine's teenage son.

In the laundry room, he found Lori's body with a yellow strap tied around her neck.

"I reached down and touched her right elbow and could tell rigor mortis had set in," he said. "Her body temperature was cold."

After testimony, DeKleine's charge of open murder was forwarded to circuit court for trial in Grand Haven.

His arraignment is scheduled for Feb. 4.

Work status
Capt. Jack Dykstra of the Holland police said Friday that since officer Ken DeKleine's arrest due to suspicion of murdering his wife Lori, he has been placed on emergency suspension without pay.

"Basically that means that it's a serious situation, it involves something that caused us to have to immediately stop his employment status, and no pay is involved," Dykstra said. "Anytime something serious like this happens, typically an employee is suspended and there is further follow up and a decision is reached to either discipline or terminate" the employee, he said.


It has nothing to do with whether or not we believe (the allegations) are true," he added.

Friday, January 25, 2008

THINK OF THE KIDS: LORI DEKLEINE TO HUSBAND

Think of the kids: Lori DeKleine to husband
WZZM TV NEWS 13
Peter Ross & Bob Brenzing
Created: 1/25/2008 10:23:35 AM
Updated: 1/26/2008 9:22:50 AM
http://www.wzzm13.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=86719
Detective says Ken DeKleine admitted to killing wife so "he could spend his life with his kids, without her."

Holland - A Holland Police Officer will be held over for trial for killing his wife earlier in January.

Ken DeKleine appeared in court this morning for a preliminary examination to determine if enough evidence existed for a trial.

Several witnesses took the stand this morning including the Michigan State Police Detective who interviewed DeKleine the day after the murder.

Detective Sgt. Gary Miles said on the stand that DeKleine admitted to strangling his wife, Lori, and making the scene appear to be a suicide.

Miles said DeKleine's goal was to "spend his life with his children, without her." Miles also said that in the interview, DeKleine first started thinking about killing Lori in January 2007 when she took out a Personal Protection Order against him and formulated his plan in December 2007.

Miles described how DeKleine told him how he hid in the attic of his estranged wife's home early in the morning of January 10th. After waiting for the children to leave for school, the detective said DeKleine encountered his wife, watching her from the door between the garage and the inside of the home. DeKleine forced his way in, the detective testified, holding a strap tied into a slipknot.

Detective Miles testified: "He then grabbed his wife Lori - a struggle ensued. He got this slipknot over her head. He began to tighten the slipknot against her throat. She made a statement 'think of the kids' and, he tells me that he said to her 'I am thinking of the kids' and then he continued to tighten this around the throat until he believes she died."

The medical examiner, Holland Police and other Michigan State Police detectives also testified this morning.

DeKleine's next hearing will be a formal arraignment on the charge of open murder on February 4th. He remains in jail without bond.

DETECTIVE: COP HID IN ATTIC BEFORE MURDER

Detective: Cop hid in attic before murder
Posted by The Grand Rapids Press
January 25, 2008 11:15AM
Categories: Breaking News, DeKleine case, Top Stories
http://blog.mlive.com/grpress/2008/01/detective_officer_confessed_to.html
HOLLAND -- Officer Ken DeKleine first thought of murdering his wife the day she took out a restraining order against him. He carried out the plan earlier this month by hiding in the separated couple's attic overnight before he attacked her with a climbing strap and rubber gloves, a detective testified this morning.

Michigan State Police Detective Gary Miles said DeKleine confessed to killing Lori DeKleine, telling him Lori DeKleine told him to "think of the kids" as he was strangling her with the strap.

He replied to her: "I am thinking of the kids," said Miles, recounting DeKleine's confession.

Miles said DeKleine told him he "wanted to cause her death and kill her. He hoped to get away with it so he could spend his life with his children without her."

The DeKleines were going through a contentious divorce, and she filed for a personal protection order in late January 2007.

Miles said Ken DeKleine hatched a plan in December to kill her, then earlier this month went to her house in the middle of the night, lifted the garage door to get in, and hid in the attic above the garage in freezing temperatures until his teenage children left about 7:45 a.m.

When they did leave, he emerged, strangled Lori DeKleine with the strap during a struggle in the kitchen, then dragged her body into the basement and staged a scene to look like a suicide, police said.

DeKleine, whose shirt was bloody after Lori DeKleine bit his lip, tossed his sweatshirt and his shoes out the window as he drove to his apartment, Miles said.

He hid Lori DeKleine's shirt, which he also removed because it was stained with his blood, in her home's attic.

Ottawa County Medical Examiner Dr. David Start said Lori DeKleine had numerous bruises all over her body, indicating a severe struggle. She died of strangulation.

During today's hearing, Holland police Sgt. Jeff Velthouse began sniffling while talking about being called to the scene and finding Lori DeKleine's body. He had known both the husband and wife for years.

HOLLAND POLICE OFFICER BOUND OVER FOR TRIAL IN WIFE'S DEATH

Holland police officer bound over for trial in wife's death
WOOD TV NEWS
JANUARY 25, 2008
http://www.woodtv.com/Global/story.asp?S=7774143&nav=menu44_2
HOLLAND, Mich. -- A Holland police officer has been bound over for trial in the death of his wife, who also served on the force.

Forty-four-year-old Ken DeKleine remains jailed without bond following his preliminary examination Friday morning in Ottawa County District Court.

Michigan State Police Detective Sgt. Gary Miles testified DeKleine told investigators he strangled his 43-year-old wife on Jan. 10 and tried to make Lori DeKleine's death look like a suicide.

The defendant is to be arraigned Feb. 4 on a charge of open murder and would face a mandatory life prison sentence with no possibility of parole if convicted.

A telephone message seeking comment from defense lawyer Floyd Farmer was left at his Spring Lake office after the hearing.

HOLLAND POLICE OFFICER BOUND OVER FOR TRIAL IN WIFE'S DEATH

Holland police officer bound over for trial in wife's death
Associated Press - January 25, 2008 12:04 PM ET
WLNS TV 6: LANSING MICHIGAN
http://www.wlns.com/Global/story.asp?S=7774115&nav=menu25_2

HOLLAND, Mich. (AP) - A Holland police officer has been bound over for trial in the death of his wife, who also served on the force.

Forty-4-year-old Ken DeKleine remains jailed without bond following his preliminary examination Friday morning in Ottawa County District Court.

Michigan State Police Detective Sgt. Gary Miles testified DeKleine told investigators he strangled his 43-year-old wife on Jan. 10 and tried to make Lori DeKleine's death look like a suicide.

The defendant is to be arraigned Feb. 4 on a charge of open murder and would face a mandatory life prison sentence with no possibility of parole if convicted.

A telephone message seeking comment from defense lawyer Floyd Farmer was left at his Spring Lake office after the hearing.